15 ways to ruin a bachelor(ette) party

Planning a Bachelor(ette) party is a fun but challenging task. There are many ways to create an amazing event, but there are also several pitfalls to avoid. We’ve gathered the most important tips to ensure the bride(groom) has a memorable, but not disastrous, experience!

1. Choose a date that doesn’t fit
Everything is ready and the Bachelor(ette) party is planned to the letter. But then it turns out that the bride (or groom) is away at work, is having a tuxedo fitted for the wedding, or is busy with something else important.
Tip: Check the date thoroughly with both the bride(groom) and any other important people before you start planning!

2. Forget an important attendee
It happens quickly: Everyone is ready for the Bachelor(ette) party, but suddenly the bride(groom) asks for a friend from childhood that everyone has forgotten.
Tip: Make a list of the bride(groom)’s most important friends early on, and get confirmation from him about who he wants to include.

3. Do something that causes the wedding to be canceled
While it’s fun to challenge the bride(groom), you should be careful with activities that can have serious consequences.
Tip: Avoid situations where the bride(groom) might lose control, especially if it could damage the relationship with the future spouse.

4. Do something that will make the bride(groom)’s boyfriend(s) tingle
Take into account what the bride(groom)’s boyfriend thinks of the activities. If he/she isn’t comfortable with the bride(groom) visiting strip clubs, it’s a good idea to choose something else.
Tip: Keep the lines of communication open and make sure that no activity leads to problems after the bachelor party.

5. Do something the bride(groom) really doesn’t want to do
It’s fun to challenge the bride(groom), but make sure the activities are something he actually wants to do.
Tip: If the bride(groom) is afraid of heights, bungee jumping is probably not the best choice. Read between the lines and pay attention to what he wants and doesn’t want.

6. Raise expectations and don’t deliver
Everyone is looking forward to a big surprise, but if you set the bar too high and then deliver something far less impressive, the mood can turn sour.
Tip: Be realistic about what can be achieved. If possible, lower your expectations a little – it’s much more fun when you actually get it done!

7. Get the bride(groom) drunk early in the day
Alcohol can be a fun part of the bBachelor(ette) party, but make sure the bride(groom) has the opportunity to participate in all activities.
Tip: Don’t let the bride(groom) get too drunk early in the day. Let him enjoy the experience without the alcohol getting the better of him.

8. Losing the bride(groom)
It’s easy to get lost in all the festivities, but the bride(groom) should never be alone, especially in an unfamiliar place.
Tip: Always keep track of the groom’s whereabouts and make sure he’s included in all planned activities. No one wants a “where’s the groom?” crisis.

9. Do something boring
The bachelor party should be fun! Don’t let the day include long waiting times or activities that are not engaging.
Tip: Keep your energy up throughout the day and make sure there’s always something fun going on.

10. Pricing yourself out
Setting the bar high on activities and experiences can be tempting, but be realistic about your budget.
Tip: Set a realistic budget and be open about it with participants. It doesn’t help to have a great plan if no one can afford to participate!

11. Don’t organize the payment
It’s always a nightmare when you have to spend time and energy collecting money afterwards.
Tip: Make a payment plan early and make sure everyone pays in advance. It saves you a lot of hassle!

12. Without food and drink…
Food is important! Even if the activity is exciting, the mood can quickly deteriorate if no one gets anything to eat.
Tip: Plan meals in advance. If there is no food available at the activity location, make sure you have a solution.

13. Be late
Time is of the essence when you have booked activities. Lateness can cause you to miss important parts of the day or not participate at all.
Tip: Be on time and make sure everyone stays on schedule. If you see that you’re running late, let the activity provider know.

14. Really dangerous and silly things
Safety should always come first! Avoid activities that can be dangerous, such as drunk driving or stunts without adequate skills.
Tip: Keep the activities fun but safe, and make sure no one does anything dangerous that could lead to injury.

15. Tattoo as a memory in the evening
Tattoos as a memory may seem like a fun idea, but it can be a decision that is regretted in the long term.
Tip: Avoid tattoos on your bachelorette party! Memories can be created in many other ways.

The bachelor party should be a fun and unforgettable experience. Avoid these pitfalls and you’re guaranteed to make sure the bride (or groom) has a fantastic day!

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